Flow

Driving in town recently, it dawned on me how intricate the flow of traffic was. Hundreds of massive machines passed within just a few feet of each other in a constant stream of activity. On the whole, it was a substantial choreography of human interaction. Then, someone cut across two lanes to try and turn left from the far right. In this case, catastrophe was averted but not without major adrenaline rushes for all of those in that person’s path (and a few choice words as well). Soon though, everyone reverted back to the steady pace of synchronized travel.

Statistically, being in a car is a fairly safe option, particularly when you truly realize how often accidents don’t happen. When drivers are attuned to the flow around them, pay attention to their environment, and are physically and mentally stable and engaged, it is quite amazing how well the system works. Strangely, when we are doing it right, it seems almost automatic and effortless.

Flow is a natural part of the world around us. Like a creek winding its way down a hill or the crashing of the ocean waves on the beach, we can find a definitive pattern at work. Our lives as humans are guided by similar currents and influences. If we pay attention to these flows, we can use these forces to direct and enhance our daily interactions.

Ignoring the synchronicity that plays out in our lives every day can be a dangerous thing. Just like the previous mentioned driver, when we ignore what is happening around us through ignorance, arrogance, or inattention, we put ourselves and others in harm’s way. We can instead, through intentionality and practice, learn to “go with the flow” and live life more abundantly.